Tuesday, May 22, 2007

In celebration of

Paula Mary Sharpe Brouwer
April 19, 1976 (Dublin, Ireland) - May 16, 2007 (Ottawa, Canada)

Service held on May 22, 2007
at St. George's Anglican Church, Ottawa

Scripture Readings:
Micah 6:6-8
Romans 12:1-2,9-21
Isaiah 58:6-12
Psalm 46

Audio of the remembrances by Stephen Sharpe and Eric Brouwer
Audio of the sermon by Rev. Jennifer Wickham


The following appeared on the back of the bulletin at the service

Paula was born in Dublin, Ireland on April 19, 1976, adopted into the Sharpe family, and immigrated to Canada in 1981 with her parents June and Gerry and brother Stephen. They settled in the town of Mackenzie, BC. Growing up, Paula made friends easily and excelled in everything she did. After graduating from high school, she went on to study science at UBC in Vancouver and was awarded a scholarship that gave the opportunity for her to work at the National Research Council in Ottawa for three summers.

It was in Ottawa that Paula found two of her loves, rugby and Darren. She joined the Ottawa Indians Rugby Club, finding a place for her passion, heart, strength, and athletic ability which continued with the UBC women’s varsity rugby team. She so captivated Darren that he joined her in Vancouver to pursue their relationship as well as graduate studies. In Vancouver, they made many lasting friendships and Paula was drawn into a transformative relationship with Jesus Christ. Paula and Darren’s love deepened and they were married in July 2000.

While Paula graduated from UBC with a science degree, she was very aware that a career in science was not for her. Her compassion and love for people, passion for justice, and sense of God’s calling led her to return to UBC to study social work. In 2003 they moved to Southampton, England where Paula thrived in her new role as a social worker. Again, they were shaped by many great friendships.

They returned to Ottawa in 2005 where Paula worked for the Canadian Mental Health Association. In July 2006, Micah was born, a wonderful gift from God. In addition to motherhood, Paula was called to be a leader at St. George’s Church, using her tremendous gifts and passion for mercy, kindness and justice.

Paula was our gift from God. She was taken much too soon. Words cannot express the void she leaves behind. But even as we walk through this valley, we have the confidence that God will sustain and uphold us, as He did Paula.

These short paragraphs do not do even come close to doing justice to Paula’s life and how she impacted every person she met.

To share or to read more stories of Paula’s life, please visit www.celebratingpaula.blogspot.com

Alternatively, you can send condolences, pictures, or stories to darren.brouwer@gmail.com

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Darren,

Please do not hesitate to contact me if I can be of any assistance in this very difficult time.

Sincerely
David Bryce

Anonymous said...

Darren,

I don't think we have ever met, but I met Paula when she studied social work at UBC. I haven't seen her since the graduation, but I remember what a kind, generous, caring, thoughtful person she was. Above all, she was a good witness for our Lord and Saviour. I remember the times when she bravely stood up for the Lord when there were things taught in class that attacked Christianity. She would respectfully defend the faith time and time again; she truly was a remarkable person and friend. Words can't describe the sorrow I felt when I heard the news. I will continue to pray for you and your family; praying that one day Micah will know how wonderful his mom was and what a great servant of the Lord she was. May you find comfort in the Lord in this difficult time.

Sincerely,
Joyce Fung

Mem Hoekstra said...

Dear Darren,
We were so saddened for you and Micah with the death of Paula. I did not know her, but Mendelt and Marisa know and love you all very much. Some of my children in B.C. remember her as a loving and kind woman. Your loss is great and she finished the Race here on earth too soon in human understanding.
It is our prayer that as you go on, loving and nurturing your son, that you will receive God's grace and comfort over and over again. Be assured that Paula will be cheering you on, together with the Church Triumphant. May our Heavenly Father wrap His loving arms around you both and give you peace.
Mem Hoekstra

Anonymous said...

Darren,

All my thoughts are with you and Micah in this terrible time. I had the chance to meet Paula on few occasions and it was always like seeing an old friend. Her smile will stay with us for a long time.

Sincerely,

Celine Schneider

Anonymous said...

Darren,

I went to highschool with Paula, Played softball with her for years up in Mackenzie and last saw her the night the two of you got engaged (at the Blarney Stone). I will always remember her with that wonderful spirit and shining smile that she always had. She was an inspiration to everyone and I am deeply saddened by the news of her passing.
Sincerely,
Wendy Barwise

Anonymous said...

hi darren and micah. My name is Susan o' connor(nee sharpe) I was her first cousin. My parents are Vincent and Margaret. You stayed in our house in skerries thats were we met you. Couldnt believe the news the day my mam rang 2 tell me what had happened. I remember we went 2 see a show in swords one night.What a night that was. Will always remember the day she moved to canada I was only about 7 or 8 but stood at dublin airport and cried my eyes out. Still dont know why. I will miss her something terrible even though i didnt see her that often except when she came over to visit but its probably her smile that i will remember the most from susan and gary o connor

Anonymous said...

Darren
I can,t remember if we have met before. We are members of Meadowlands fellowship CRC and I am a friend of your brother Dwayne.
We serve as deacons together and I have also served with your Mom. Even though we may not know each other, we are a family of believers and we would like to express our deepest condolences to you and family. We are so sorry to hear of this tragedy. I hope to meet you soon.
Sincerely Len& Sherry Tigchelaar

Katheryn Buble said...

Darren,

I went to Science One with Paula in 1994. In Science One, a math professor commented how the bright light bulb of understanding shines very often in Paula.

It is with great sadness that I write this. I will remember Paula as a very energetic and wonderful person. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Sincerely,
Katheryn Buble

Anonymous said...

We watched Paula grow from a little girl to a beautiful intelligent woman. Our heart goes out to her family. Since we moved from Mackenzie we don't have a proper address for Gerry & June so our card to them was returned. Could you email it so we can get in touch. Louis & Nora Fulop, Armstrong, BC lnfulop@junction.net